First Impressions Last!

I had the privilege of watching 7th and 8th graders participate and enjoy themselves at Cotillion last night.  They walked into the party looking "the part."  They know we have 15 to 30 seconds to make a GOOD first impression or a POOR one.  We can change the opinion of others but that takes work.  The first impression lingers....

They showed off their manners to the parents in attendance! 

1. Name tags on the right shoulder
2. Shake hands, web to web
3. Good eye contact
4. Smile, when introducing yourself

I actually remember what it feels like in the 8th grade!  Been there, done that.  And oh, my....if they can just get it: the tools to feel confident - wherever they may be; a classroom, gym, stage, dance floor, tennis court - are at their fingertips.  And, then...to treat others as THEY want to be treated.  With kindness and respect.  While I've seen this group do their share of eye-rolling, and "uh, uh, not her" or "not him!" (which is normal!) last night they rose to the occasion.  It proves that they are capable.  Dress 'em up, take them out of their routine and they RISE.  It was such a treat to be in the midst of 7th and 8th grade students with their PARENTS, enjoying the evening. 

Talk to your kids...I strongly recommend role playing.  Have the family stage a receiving line - teach them how to shake hands.  Firmly.  Practice smiling if it doesn't come naturally.  Tell them it melts our hearts when we are acknowledged:  "Hi, Mrs. Johnson, nice to see you!"

Knowing what to do in a social situation, with confidence, is the sign of a leader!